When I think about dating and what I am looking for in a guy, it's hard to pick one trait. I would say it is all the little things that most people don't notice. I think respecting each other and not bickering or talk down to each other. Considering each other's feelings and consulting with each other about scheduling dates and purchases instead of making decisions on your own which could affect the other person or the family. I think it is the way we hold hands and stand or sit beside each other, always close - touching without being overly sexual. The kiss hello and goodbye. The smile at each other. The laugh and sharing casual conversation with ease. Wanting to spend time with each other. It's all the little things that tell the other person you are important, you are cared for, and I value you in my life.
I need to have someone I trust, respect, and admire. He needs to be faithful and a kind thoughtful partner. A good sense of humor is important . A quick wit. Patience is a must. Kind to animals. Slow to anger. Likes the outdoors and nature. Likes to travel and have adventures. Is financially stable. Able to have a healthy sex life. Confident but not arrogant. Someone I will love and cherish for the rest of my life. I waited so long to do this. I am not a lonely person, but I no longer want to be alone. I don't want to rush into anything. I have had enough disasters in my life.
